，都取决于你的态度。在我们的恋爱和婚姻关系中，我始终喜欢处于被动的地位和姿势。
有你的爱我或许会活得更好；但是，若你不怜惜我，不爱我，OK，我不CARE。因为，请记住，我并非离开你的爱就不能活；
我更不会一定要求你爱我，但你如果不爱我，你仍然，必须，尊重我，敬畏我。
所以，不要再和我说“你凭什么问我？我可以做任何事，只要想做。”
若我付出所有，穷的只剩下自尊，那么我为了扞卫我的尊严，也什么都可以做。
为了避免以下的话太过血腥暴力决绝，我选择用英文说，如果你不懂，请用金山翻译。
I will try all my best to keep the dignity of myself and my marriage from beeing destroyed by anybody until i want to break it by myself.
If anyone try to destroy my dignity and my marriage in an unacceptable way like cheating,betrayal or violence ,I am 100% sure that he will receive a good fight back and an unexpected ending which he will spend all his life to memorize and regret for that,the worst thing is that hes going to be denied of everything and pay back all the sacrifice I have ever made for you ，so that you can understand how lonly and desperate I am now.You cant never be too creative to imagine the worst and most horryfing thing you have ever witnessed when other couple divorce/breaking up.